guys, do you still remember what juliet’s room looked like when she wasn’t born yet and we had just moved into our apartment? whenever i look at THOSE PICTURES right now, i can’t believe how clean and uncosy the space was before she arrived. as you can see in THIS POST i started adding some colorful touches little by little, until end of last year her room evolved into THIS WARMER AND COZIER PLACE for her to feel good and safe. but it wasn’t until i hit the playful-warmth-and-coziness motherload a few weeks ago, that her room really came together…

browsing the new arrivals on the new KIDS LOVE DESIGN webshop, i stumbled upon this gorgeous beauty of a rug by lorena canals. it is obviously inspired by the traditional and colorful beni ouarain moroccan rugs, but it’s quite a bit less expensive and when it gets dirty you can just throw this version in the washer. needless to say – i was sold the minute i first spotted it, and was convinced this was exactly what juliet’s room needed to become the playful paradise i had in mind for her.

perhaps it’s because i introduced it so enthusiastically to her, but juliet was a fan right away, too. lately she’s become obsessed with baby yoga (did i mention we have the most amazing daycare here in switzerland? i love that they introduced my kid to this – she might even encourage me to finally take up yoga with her!), and the giant rug gives her ample space to practice her downward dog and her favorite pose, the butterfly (‘when your feet give each other kisses’, are her instructions.) it’s also her favorite place to play hide and seek with whatever throw or blanket is closest to her, to grab a book from the new book racks i improvised with spice racks from ikea and read it stretched out on the floor… we don’t have a rug that is as fluffy and cozy as this one in our living room, so her own room is fast becoming her favorite place to hang out.

to be honest, i hadn’t anticipated the rug would fit in so well as it does. i feel like all the little things i’ve bought or found and started throwing together now finally start making sense. from the soft pinks to the golden mustard tones that started accumulating, it all needed just a little more color to tie it all together. and it turns out a tiny bit of boho charm, too. i found those cute tassel key chains in a souvenir shop on mallorca, and i love how the colors seem to fit exactly with the ones in the rug. i couldn’t have planned it any better, but i feel like it’s even more meaningful because it was all spur of the moment.

i’m curious – what is your approach to designing your home, or your kids’ room? do you plan it all out, do you seek help from a professional, or do you do as i do – search, gather, collect and pray that it all works out in the end?

so many things in juliet’s room came from (or can be found at) my favorite kids design store in divonne (and online shop, too) KIDS LOVE DESIGN – that gorgeous lorena canals rug, her oeuf nyc bed, the budtzbendix changing table • juliet’s bed is made with CAMOMILE LONDON, KONGESSLOEJD and KIDWILD linens. the numero74 flag line, canopy and bed bumper i found at LIDOR (which has an amazing selection of that brand). the mustard throw is from belgian brand POMAX, and the cute baby blankets, bear lovey and pink knit pillow are also belgian-made, from HVID • juliet is wearing an outfit by GRO COMPANY, slippers from EASYPEASY and sandals from LIMONSODA • the wooden toy camera is from ZOEN VOOR GUST and the crocodile pillow is from GRAMPA PARIS. please leave a comment if you’d like to know the origins of anything else in the photos • all photos by stephanie duval

when i met noemi blumberg during a particularly fun student job assignment, i learned she was studying law and was impressed by her smarts. but it was her personality that left an even bigger impact – as kind, loving and emphathetic as they come. she was also this beautiful, stylish and elegant ballet dancer with a group of friends that loved her so much. though i don’t think i ever told her in as many words, she already was a true inspiration to me then.

so imagine how much i love her now for being part of this brilliant group of ladies who set out to support, inspire and coach other women under the umbrella of their MIZBIZ organisation. i signed up for membership as soon as i learned about it, confident that whatever noemi puts her mind to, has to be worth investigating. i soon found out that she is surrounded by four equally gorgeous, driven, ambitious and kind women, and together they make mizbiz a place and a group of people you can count on.

i learned that in a fun way, when we worked together to organize their second-ever event at roomin antwerp, and it was such an inspiring and motivating evening that left me feeling energized and reassured that i was not the only one facing the same struggles balancing work and life. the second time i reached out was when i felt like the world was starting to crumble underneath my feet, and everything i had worked so hard for was at jeopardy. in unison they did what they could to comfort me, help me and reassure me that everything was going to be ok in the end – and if it wasn’t ok, then it wasn’t the end.

i’ve had the pleasure of meeting these five talented ladies a few times now, but as we are always so busy running from one meeting to another event whenever we do, i took this blog post – also a throwback to their one-year-anniversary event at fosbury & sons a few weeks ago – as an opportunity to try and get inside of their minds for a minute. they each answered a few questions from my kick-ass women interview series – and i love how different their answers are, and yet how they all approach life from the same deep-rooted values. i hope their interview is as inspiring to you as meeting these women has been to me!

what has been a challenge you didn’t think you could overcome, but conquered anyway?

jennifer: stepping away from my well-paid job to venture out into the unknown and pursue my passion. after 7 years at my first employer i quit my job and moved to kenya with my husband, who was offered an expat-job. the idea of having no challenge, being financially dependent and bringing my career to a halt was terrifying. but it was the best decision in my life. i had the time to think about what i love and am good at. i read inspiring books like sheryl sandberg’s lean in. i found my creative flow again. in 6 months time my husband and i completely redesigned our life together, making living as big a priority as learning. i started my consulting company and mizbiz. but most importantly i have learned to let go of my fear of failure.
jess: i have had a few of these… the most recent was being able to get a job in a completely different country, culture, language and environment. as a lawyer from a developing country, i have faced a certain degree of professional stigma. it was really hard for me to get a job in europe, and on many occasions i’ve felt like i needed to work much harder than anyone else to prove i deserved my place. after some years i managed to not only get a job, but to prove my value in several different functions. i have been lucky enough to have sponsors that believe in my abilities and that have given me amazing professional opportunities where i could truly prove my worth and bring real value.
sophie: quitting my job and taking the time to figure out what i really wanted to do next. in the past year i went from being a lawyer to being an intern in an advertising agency to finally being a senior legal consultant. quitting my job and figuring out my next move has been a challenging, eye-opening and emotional process with amazing highs and tough lows. giving up a well-paid and respected job to try and infiltrate a world where you feel like an outsider was an idea that scared me. i dove into the deep and was hired as a strategist-intern at a creative ad agency. it was pretty scary at first, i had no specific advertising or creative professional skills to show for. i found out how inventive, solution-driven and out-of-the-box i can be. even though the conclusion at the end of the ride was that it wasn’t for me, i am so happy that i have faced this challenge and experienced that even though things are scary and things don’t work out the way you had anticipated, it’s ok! you bounce back, you are more resilient than you think. every step brings you closer to where you have to be.
laura: moving to a foreign country completely alone. not knowing the language, culture or having any family or friends there. stepping out of my comfort zone.

what is the most important thing you’ve learned in your life so far?

jennifer: that life doesn’t end at 30 (haha). in my twenties i was so worried about the choices i made. it was as if i was racing against that age-barrier to have achieved certain targets i defined for myself. i was very fearful of making the wrong decisions and taking risks. i have learned that life is all about trying, failing and learning. when i stopped working for 6 months it was the most liberating experience and it showed me life is full of opportunities if you open yourself up to them. i am still hard on myself, but less stoical. today i’d rather challenge myself on taking too few risks than too many.
noemi: you can overcome anything. losing a parent was one of my biggest nightmares and during my father’s illness it seemed impossible to live a happy life ever again. although my father assured me that i would bounce back, and my mother taught me that you are not given anything you can’t handle, it seemed impossible at the time to live on happily after having lost someone you love so very dearly. and yet, i noticed that i was capable of building so much resilience that i learned that everything always gets better. you can feel as if the world is coming to an end one day, but if a little bit of time passes, you can smile again and eventually feel again. this lesson is one that i try to apply in everyday life, to the big ones but also the little things.
jess: that after a number of academic degrees and some professional and life experience, i still know nothing. that we continue to grow and evolve as people, no matter how set in our ways we think we are, and that that’s a good thing.
sophie: putting things in perspective and being positive are attitudes that shape your life. to see the bigger picture and the upside to everything makes you achieve more and fear less. definitely a lesson i have learned and something i have experienced personally during the past year.


what are you trying to teach yourself right now?

jennifer: that there is no idea without a plan. i am good at the first and want to become great at the last. oh, and that taking care of my body deserves as much focus as my career does, in order to feel fulfilled.
noemi: it is okay to not have a plan. since elementary school i have always had a plan. i knew what high school i wanted to attend, uni of antwerp next, then nyu and then i had my career track planned out until the point where i am now. after being promoted to managing associate, which is sort of a mid-lever acknowledgment in many law firms, i did not have a new plan. where do i want to go now? do i want to be a partner in a law firm some day? do i want to set up my own business in a totally different field? do i want to remain a lawyer with a different lifestyle? after overthinking these questions for quite a while, i left for a 3 week holiday with my husband and i realised that “it is okay”. i have a big interest in so many things and i have developed skills that are useful in so many fields. i am fine where i am right now and it is okay not to know what the future will bring. i feel in my heart that it will also be okay wherever i am going, even if it’s unknown and i don’t have a detailed plan ready. this may seem as stating the obvious to many, but for me it is a complete liberation. just to relax and go with the flow. now i have to implement it by also letting go of things more.
jess: that it’s ok not to be on top of everything. i still have a hard time not holding myself to impossible standards. i am trying to learn how to deal with the fact that you cannot be 100% in control of everything in your life and that it’s ok.
laura: to be honest with myself, and go for whatever i want even if at some point i don’t make everybody happy.
sophie: that it is ok to make mistakes, because they always bring along something: a lesson, a good story, an opportunity to grow.

if you could only give one piece of advice to anyone, what would it be?

jennifer: take the time to think about what makes you happy in life, then design your career around that. i truly believe those who have a career with a purpose and passion will be the most successful at it.
jess: try and make yourself happy and forget about what others think. whatever that means for you: whether it means breaking away from certain personal relationships, going against the people you care most about, even if it means losing everything that’s stable in your life. life is too short to spend it being unhappy. that and… it’s ok to ask for help. do what you need to do, to feel better about yourself and your life.
laura: listen more to yourself. take the time to make a decision, but when you have made it, go for it! it’s ok if you fail – it’s human – but always remember to learn from your mistakes.
sophie: a career is very important but being true to yourself should always be a priority. be brave enough to challenge what you do and to question what added value it brings to your life. if it doesn’t make you happy, act on it and move on.

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